When it comes to picking up women during the day (my speciality), you have to understand that once you get over your initial fear, it’s far easier than trying to pick up girls in bars or night clubs. Women expect to be hit on in bars! However on the street or in a shopping centre it rarely happens and women are off their guard. This gives you a great opportunity to swoop in and get their phone number!

And i’m not saying this method is perfect! All i can say is this is my method and it works for me. It doesn’t work everytime, but it works far more often than it fails.

So grab a cup of coffee and take in my tips! All this I do on a regular basis so I know about any pitfalls or anxieties you may have. Trust me when I say, you’ve just got to put what you’ve learned into practice!

How To Pick Up Women – The Mindset!

Women rarely get approached in the daytime and if they are, then 9 times out of 10 its by a drunk or some social undesirable they will just ignore! Therefore if you approach a girl and you’re confidant and are not some homeless guy then you’ll immediately arouse curiosity. You will have her respect for being the only nice guy that year with the balls to do what you’re doing!

Remember this! Girls will always give you a few minutes of their time if you actually do this! Approach them and you will be rewarded with a few minutes to show them you’re worth getting to know!

How To Pick Up Women – Pre Approach!

Following on from above, try not to look like a homeless guy! When you’re out shopping, going for a coffee or for a walk you’ll always increase your chances if you look your best! Dress nice and be well groomed! If nothing else, it’ll make you feel more confidant which she’ll also detect.

I’ve found that sometimes it helps to listen to some uplifting tunes on my Ipod to get me in the mood, if you need to do this then do it!

When you spot her, make sure you’re posture is straight, you have your chin up and are walking towards her with confidence. She’ll be forming an opinion on you already, before you’ve even said anything! How unfare is that?

Above all, it helps to have an idea of what you’re about to do and say before you do it…Read on!

How To Pick Up Women – Types Of Approaches!

There are two types of approaches; indirect and direct! As they are covered in amazing detail in other places I shall only briefly describe them here. An indirect approach is where you go in with a question or to ask for their opinion on something, trying to come in under the radar! If you’ve read The Game by Neil Straus or much literature on this subject then you’ll know they tend to advocate towards indirect openers. This is because most of the literature out there is for picking up women in bars and night clubs.

Think about it for a second! A guy reads in the game that you should go “indirect” on a girl. So he goes up to her and he says to her in the middle of the day “I like your hair, but is it real?” Well that is just gonna come across as being weird, not to mention an obvious pick up. That line might work great in a bar or nightclub but definately not during the day on the street.

For picking up women during the day , I’ve always found that direct openers work far far better. Being direct is to march straight up to a girl you find attractive and to bluntly tell her just that, that you think she is stunning!

Believe me, if you do this, you will make an impact, you’ll look confidant and if you do it right then you’ll get her number and who knows where it will go from there!

How To Pick Up Women – Advantages Of Going Direct!

1. You look alpha male; you’ve seen something you like and you’ve gone for it! This is provided you don’t hesitate that is!

2. You don’t waste 10 minutes talking about an opinion you don’t really care about so you save time!

3. You get instant respect!

4. Perhaps most importantly; the structure of a direct daytime approach is very simple. I have a theory that the fear of approaching women comes from having too much tactics, pick up lines, techniques and other crap in your head that you think you need to pull off to get her number. The reality is that it’s really quite simple!

How To Pick Up Women – The Approach!

You may not think that going direct is your style, but please just give it a few goes and see how you find it. The beauty is that when you’ve done it once, no matter how well or bad it went, you’re fired up to do another one straight after. You’ll feel unstoppable!

Here is the approach:

1. Assuming your target is in the street, you need to position yourself about 2 metres in front of her. This may well mean you have to run, but this will add to the impact. If she’s walking towards you then stop her 2 metres in front, if she’s walking away then run maybe a little more than 2 metres in front as she’ll keep on moving for a few steps before she stops.

2. Remember you’re going direct! This means that you’re saying to her something like:

“Oh my god I was just over there on my phone and I had to hang up when I saw you and come over otherwise I would just kick myself”

or

“Hey i’ve got to stop you and say hi cos if i didn’t i’d never forgive myself, I think you’re stunning!”

or

“Hey I was just over there with my friend and I ran away from her when I saw you cos I think you’re just beautiful!”

3. When you’ve done that, the hard part is over! Well almost! Either way, you’re going to know pretty soon how it went down and if it’s not too well, then who cares, just move onto the next one!

4. Assuming she hasn’t run away, which 9 times out of 10 she won’t. Just introduce yourself and shake her hand! Now comes the most difficult part of the pick up…the transition!

All you have to do here is carry on talking and try to get the girl into a normal conversation! So carrying on from one of the direct openers from above; “Hey i’ve got to stop you and say hi cos if i didn’t i’d never forgive myself, I think you’re stunning!” Shake her hand “I’m (insert your name)”, she’ll introduce herself then say something like “You know what it was about you that I like, it’s the way you walk” or “It’s the way you dress, it’s very rare to find a girl in this town who knows how to dress!” Basically you’re giving her a compliment that follows on from your opener! If you can come up with something tailored to her as you’re walking up then you’re making your life easier. If she’s wearing a stylish hat then mention that, it will sound more sincere and genuine, she’ll also appreciate it simply because she also knows she looks good in that hat.

5. Now just try to get into a normal conversation for about 10 minutes! Well actually the longer the better and the less likely she’ll be to flake on dates! Ask her how her day is going so far, or what she was doing before she was rudely interrupted. Find out about her, try and find common ground and you’ll have an idea about what to do for a date!

6. As soon as you’ve found common ground then you can easily set a date up there and then! Does she like coffee, the cinema, going for a meal. What museums does she like? It really doesn’t have to be hard for you to get this information! Then you PUT YOUR PHONE IN HER HAND AND TELL HER TO PUT HER NUMBER IN! Don’t ever ask for her number, just do what I capitalized above!

7. When you have her number and she hands you your phone back, don’t assume that your work is done! Now is your chance to do something unique, that no other guy will ever do in her lifetime! Text her there and then while she’s standing next to you. Text something like “Hey (insert her name…I hope you’ve remembered it!) who is that awesome guy you’re standing next to, he looks kinda cute!” She’ll get the message and she’ll laugh but more importantly, she has your number! Even more importantly, you can say to her that its now down to her to text you and then…you walk away!

She will text you back, trust me! And you wont be worrying about whether or not she’ll text you or any of that other crap becuase you took the initiative right there and you’ve commanded her to text you back!

This is the method I use all the time, whenever I see a girl I like I now have it on auto pilot and it works. Though admittedly I have read a lot of material on the subject of Picking Up Women, I have found that Supernatural Seduction System is by far the best thing i’ve seen on this subject. I highly recommend it to you as I know it will improve your life and give you everything you need to date as many women as you want! It takes particular care to make sure you’re all set to approach women during the day on the street and it drills some incredible techniques into your head that I know have helped me and will help you too.

As for your first date itself, I strongly suggest you check out these First Date Tips which will give you all the info and advice you need to have that amazing first date!